One of the many Chelsea Boys who flitter into the city, this young man opted for the "path of least resistance". Avoiding the demands of a career or any real relationship, he picked a job as a pole-dancer in a typical gay bar (further reinforcing the peculiar need to have thong-wearing go-go boys at all gay bars).
Relying on his looks--and willingness to act like a whore/dancer from the Wild West Saloons--he chose to associate with the "lowest common denominator".
His choices reinforce the unsupportable "body shaming" and hyper-snooty-discrimation that goes on in urban gay circles. His own friend, Tyler, commented that he can't deal with "being gay" in NYC, where most gay men are intolerable to be around. A third friend remarked, "Don't worry. One day, you might be less attractive, and then they'll just ignore you." That summarizes urban gay behavior--especially in NYC.
The young man chose to reinforce "gay stereotypes": flouncy, flighty, unreliable, uber-promiscuous, sex-crazed, unsafe, drug-using, drama-infatuated, snarky, focused only on veneers, air-headed twink with disheveled Life priorities.
His online posts usually involve hangovers, losing his wallet/phone, hating people, blocking people, trysts with strangers, sexual conquests, paid-travel (in exchange for "favors"), carefree daytimes, carefree "job duties" during nighttimes, immature rants about songs & TV shows, and living out his fantasies (while mocking folks who study/work)
Look at the example he sets. Why would someone want to study/work hard, when they see how irresponsibly (but fortunately) he lives--enjoying fantasies without repercussion. Many boys mimic him for years of selfish bliss.
Thus, when some of his relatives moved nearby, he desired to see his niece (after his long deliberate absence from family events). His own family refused the request. The spoiled young man ranted online that they denied his chance to kiss his youngster niece. Perhaps, they were wary of where his adventurous mouth had been.
The family relented, the young man visited, but during his visit, he bailed on them to accept a random sexual hookup that he received online from a total stranger. The youngster wasn't a priority, after all. (What a shame that gay society actually encourages such behavior and lifestyle).
The family vented frustration and indignation.
As typical, the young man ignored them, without apology. Therefore, the family removed him from their Facebook list.
With a "double-standard", he tweeted--in the slang of dark-skin Americans (because that's what gay guys like to do):
He resumed his chosen path of hedonism... a lifestyle that is showcased/celebrated more in gay life than straight life. He continued to be fawned over by salivating boys and men. He only focused on the next summer of bliss on Fire Island.
*Click here to learn about the "scene" at Fire Island:
Commenting about his lost chance with his niece, he posted:
Interesting that he didn't understand when his relatives avoided HIS negativity, to preserve THEIR happiness. Such ignorance. Thus, what can we learn from him?
Maybe modern society should value other types of people. Definitely, gay society shouldn't celebrate pole-dancers so much... or hyper-promiscuity... or irrationally-quick snubs (as if to say "swipe left" or "swipe right"). I'm certain that only in shallow-minded urban gay culture would a guy like this be exalted so high, without reason or merit. Everywhere else, he'd be considered a rude failure... which speaks volumes about the gay society that loves his type.
NOT
HELPING
OUR
CAUSE
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